Friday, July 13, 2012

Feature & Follow (July 13)



My very first Feature & Follow! I am interested to see how this will turn out. ;)





 Follow Friday is hosted by Parajunkee and Alison Can Read
Each week there is a new question to be answered and new bloggers to meet. 
There is also a featured blog every week so you never know who you will meet! This is a great way to gain new followers and find new bloggers to befriend and talk to. 
Who knows, you could even be a featured blogger one week!


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This weeks question is...







"What drove you to start book blogging in the first place?"





To this I reply - This blog started as a way for me to relieve all the various stresses in my life, and somehow morphed into a Book Review Blog. Can anyone say peer pressure?  I kid, I kid!


But seriously, I have many a friend that does book reviewing and I kept hearing how great it is.

"Mel, you should try it, it's a lot of fun! I think you would be good at it because you have such a way with words."  --From some of the friends. Hence the peer pressure comment. <3

I was told that you get to meet authors (How friggin cool is that? For me its like having my own personal genie.) you get free books to review (No one can turn down a free book. I don't care who you are.), you meet some of the most talented and awesome people (I have found this to be very true as well. A lot of reviewers have me weak in the knees with their work and they're just uber cool people.), and you get to share your opinion with anyone who will listen (That right there was the kicker for me. I won't go so far as to say that I am vain, but I'll talk the shit off of someone's ear, anyone's ear really, as long as they let me. lol). So that is how I got my start.


Continuing is probably the hardest process but it's as equally rewarding.

The magnitude of book bloggers that are in circulation and still keep popping up is gargantuan. So to say that it is just as big as facebook or twitter, wouldn't be all that inaccurate. ;) I love to meet new people and make new friends, so this was a plus for me as well.

There is never a day that goes by that I don't find a new book or series that I want to read because of a fellow blogger. That alone is worth book blogging in my opinion. For me, being approached by an author for a review is like shooting up without the drugs. (I have never in my life experienced drugs, so this is merely a speculation on my part.) LOL I get an amazing high from it and I love that feeling.

I have to admit that when it all started out, I was iffy about it. Sure, it was something new and fun but did I, hell, DO I have the talent and the know how to pull off something like a book blog? The jury is still out on that one, haha. I still feel rather shaky about my overall performance, and it's discouraging when you don't have a lot of followers, and the ones you do have aren't always there to comment on your material. Lack of feedback translates into there being a problem with you or your site. >.<  I guess that means I just have to try and pimp myself out more, right? ;)

The things you need to know if you want to be involved in giveaways or hops, or to do interviews, or to just have a visually appealing and well put together site is just overwhelming. Don't even get me started on the review policy and contact pages; we could be here all day. ;)P

Thankfully, I have help with my blog from a couple of my friends who are fellow book bloggers, but I still get lost in the fray. The material you read is confusing if you don't know what you are looking at or even what you are looking for. If I wouldn't have had them to help me, I wouldn't have a review blog. It's just too intimidating. lol

At any rate, I have strayed from the original question and accidentally turned it into a bit of a whine fest, so I am going to put down the digital pen for now and walk away. lol

Happy reading to all who stop by! I hope it wasn't too excruciating to work through. :)P


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22 comments:

  1. You have a very unique writing style and do an incredibly detailed analysis of the books you read. Despite the burgeoning world of the book blogger, your reviews stand out among the crowd. As an author, I appreciate the time and energy you devote to your reviews.

    www.alexiabanksromance.com

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    1. Thank You, Diane! That means a lot coming from someone as talented as yourself. :)

      So as an homage to your compliment, and because I'm feeling a tad goofy (pun intended. lol), I am going to post this little clip from the movie 'A Goofy Movie'. Every time anyone talks about standing out, I always sing this song. ;)P I need to take some advice from Powerline and the rest of my friends and "Stand Out".

      Hope you enjoy the video! It makes me giggle.
      http://youtu.be/advcMXVVtMs

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  2. I agree with Diane! There are a lot of book review blogs out there but you absolutely stand out from the crowd! I love your reviews and i hope you keep going with this :)

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    1. Thanks Jen! I will try not to think about the fact that you are somewhat biased with your compliments. :)P

      <3<3

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  3. Hi Melissa! Happy Friday the 13th! Love your answer. New Follower from

    http://gizmosreviews.blogspot.com/2012/07/feature-follow-friday-23.html

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    1. Hi Shelley!

      Thank you for taking the time to stop by and comment. :)

      I appreciate the following, and I will be sure to hop over to your place and follow back.

      Happy Friday the 13th!

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  4. I just started blogging in May. So we're both new bloggers. I don't get a lot of comments either, but when I look at other sites that have 1000's of followers, they often only get a dozen or so responses on an average post. So, I figure, one or two comments is in proportion to the amount of followers I have.

    New follower via GFC. My FF answer is here: http://365-books-a-year.blogspot.com/2012/07/feature-and-follow-friday-5.html

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    1. Welcome to the wonderful world of online book reviewing! *happy dance*

      I must agree with you on the thousands of viewers vs the number of comments thing. I would rather have 12 followers and have every one of them leave a meaningful comment as opposed to having 900 followers who just copy and paste their link. So kudos to you for bringing me back to reality with that tid bit of insight. :)

      I will be hopping over to your blog and following you back.

      Thanks for stopping by!

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  5. Hey! I'm so excited to find another newbie like me :) I made my blog 1 week ago and kind of want to slap myself for not making it earlier.

    New follower :)


    http://bookdoll.blogspot.com/2012/07/feature-and-follow-friday-is-weekly.html#comment-form

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    1. We can be all newbie together Jenny! :) *Happy Dance for newbies*

      Isn't having a book review blog just the best? I should have made one a long time ago too and I kick myself all the time for not giving in sooner. =/

      Thanks for joining the ranks of my stalker crew! I will be joining yours soon. lol

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  6. While peer pressure isn't good....Sometimes it has good results!!

    Welcome! :)

    The Brunette Librarian Blog

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    1. Peer pressure is not good in any other case unless it is harmless and has a good outcome. lol

      Thanks for stopping by! :)

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  7. It's cool to find a newer blogger out there - I've found so many book blogs who have hundreds of followers - and I love your answer. While I am slightly newish to the blog world as well (my current blog has been up since April, and I had a blog before that I only maintained for a few months because it was pretty bad), I agree that it is more work maintaining than actually making the blog. To make one is brave, but to continue it is hard. :) Now I'm rambling, sorry. Anyways, new follower!

    Here's my FF:
    http://theinkymelody.blogspot.com/2012/07/ff-6.html

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    1. Yay! Another rambler! I could get used to this. lol :)

      I actually have (should be considered had), a personal blog and it just sits there all lonely and unloved and depressed because I never show it any love. >.< Finding the time to blog is hard when you have 4 ankle biters running around. It's all about them... me, me, me... I need to eat, MOM! haha I love my mini's but they refuse to grant me any kind of sanctuary during the day. Score 1 for nap time! *lol*

      Anyway, my point was that I know what you mean about maintaining a blog. ;) Are we bonding right now, is that what this is? lol

      Enough with the ramble bonding... I am off to stalk your blog!

      Thanks for visiting and following!!

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  8. i agree with Diane. i love the way you write your reviews and even your memes is very unique and awesome! i always love reading your stuff cause i always get a laugh(a good one) cause i love the way your write and express yourself. Yon have done an awesome job with your blog and i think yours will stand out above others with everyone.

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    1. Awwww... Val! You know I <3 you! :) Glad I can make someone laugh. I run my elbow dry sometimes with all the grease I put into some of these posts. Its great that it seems to be paying off.

      Thanks for stopping by and showin me some love!

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  9. Great answer. You made a ton of awesome point as to why book blogging is amazing. New Linky and Twitter Follower. Thanks for sharing. =] Here is My FF
    Michael @ The Bookshelf Review

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    1. A Michael? How awesome to have a guys perspective on literature! I look forward to reading your reviews and things. :)

      Thanks for stopping by and showing my blog some love. Will be stopping by to check you out and return the favor.

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  10. It is a lot of fun! Glad you've joined us in the book blogging world. New follower.

    My follow friday! Please visit!

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    1. Thank You Cassi! I am glad I joined you guys too! :)

      Thanks for stopping by!

      Following you back!

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  11. Welcome! I'm quite new myself, and here's my FF post if you want to know why I started my blog very recently.

    I'm a new linky and GFC follower.

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    1. Thank You Lexxie! Glad you decided to join the wonderful world of book review blogging! Can't wait to see your FF post. :)

      I will be following you as well.

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